my girlfrend does not talk to me

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I have been with my girl for about 6 months now. we both say we love each other but we fight alot. most of the time the fights are because of stuf that i have done but she will not tell me that i have done something wrong. she waits until she is just fed up and then gets into it with me. the last time we fought was over one of her guy firends that told her that she loves him. she gives him a ride home from work every now and then. she knows i dont like him so lied about but got cought. i don't care if she gives him a ride or not im not going to tell her she cant be firends with him. my problem was that she lied. anyhow can i get her to understand that i u know he is just a firend to her and get her to talk to me when i do are say something she does not like. Advice
Simply tell her you understand that she is just a friend with that guy and that she doesn't need to lie about it.

As far as her speaking up when things happen, maybe you turn it into a fight when she does. A better way is for you to ask her every three days or so if she is upset by anything you have done.

Good luck! George

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