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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ive been going out with this girl for bout 6 months now i fell in love with her like a month after we started dating we knew each other for 9 months we were never exactly friends the second time we hanged out we were telling each other things we never told other people like intemit and personal secrets at first we saw each other like 3 times a week but it grew to like 5 times aweek id stay at her house overnight half the week shed come to mine for some of the week she said that she loved me and never had such a strong feeling for anyone b4 well she had a serious boyfriend that lasted 3 years they were real close even ingaged he texts her and calls saying stuff like i love you and miss you she says it back 2 him i asked her why she says she still has a kind of love for him then for the past 2 weeks shes been unsure bout everything she tearfuly broke up with me and said that she needed space and i asked her if we could gether she said not rite now she loves me but still needs time and a week ago she was wearing her ex boyfriends engagment ring she swears it means nothing to her just wears it to have a ring on she swears that shes not with him or planning on being with him idk what 2 do we have a date in 4 days and it could be a start 4 us again why is she wearing the ring and why do u think she would b confused bout us ive been jealous ive brought it up alot recently but i told her i wouldnt bring up jealousy again
This is rather complicated.
She has been cheating on her fiance for six months now. When push comes to shove, she breaks up with you. You have a date in a few days and you are hoping she will choose you.
My advice is to get down to brass tacks. Tell her you feel uncomfortable being in a triangle and that you hope she has the courage to break up with her BF. If she won't then at least you have your answer and can move on. If, however, she chooses you then you will be all set.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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