he played me, but i fell for him and i want him back!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I was going with this guy for a little while. He would call me and text me every night, and it got to the point where i was head over heels for him. Then one day when we went out, we went a little further, although we weren't officially an item. It was really nice day, then he took me to the train and i went home. That night he was really cold and i thought 'did i do something wrong'. he insisted he had had a lovely day though. The next day, my dad rang and told me to come surprise him off the golf course. But this other girl came in with the guys mam. I looked and thought 'thats not his cousin is it?'....then my dad came storming off the course and dragged me out and it turned out this other girl was the guys girlfriend.
I have since spoken to the guy every day and he says he still likes me, but hes serious about her. then he says they are going to break up in september when she moves away to Uni. I'm prayin they do break up, and in the mean time in working out, eating, and dressing better, and making myself a better girl for him. Hes 20, and im 17.
Is there any way i can get him to come back to me quicker or will he come back at all?
You are doing the right things in trying to improve yourself. But, keep in mind that you are actually doing these things for yourself not especially for him. He should like you for who you are. But, we all change every day in some small way so it is good that you are working out, etc.
There is no way to predict whether he might come back to you quicker or at all. You need to live your life, keeping him in mind, but not wasting all of your time thinking of him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com