Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
nine months ago, i separated with my boyfriend of a month because he had to move upstate, about three hours away. We mutually agreed that the distance would be too hard on us because of school/work/distance/etc. we've both been single the majority of the nine months [i had a relationship that lasted a weekend, and he had one for maybe a week] three months ago he visited, we kissed but remained separated. since then, we're both in relationships now. I love mine, and he loves his. two nights ago, i went up to spend the night at his apartment. we got fairly far in the deed [without penetration]. the next day, he said he only did it because it was me. i want him back, but i'm not sure if it would be better to remain just friends or if i should fight to get him back. i love him still, and from that night, i think he still loves me. how should I deal with this?
Since you want him back, tell your current boyfriend that you are still in love with your ex and that you have to split up.
Then tell your ex that you have split up with your BF and you still love him (your ex). Tell him that if he wants you he will need to split up with his GF and get back with you.
This way nobody is cheating.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com