Does he really love me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3-4 months. We see eachother once or twice a week and we talk everyday. He treats me good whenever we go out like he always make sure I eat and I always feel safe and protected around him. I met his mom and she likes me. Also when we are alone together he has never tried to rush me into anything. He has never attempted anything sexual but recently he been asking me when that time will come. I keep telling him "When I'm ready." But he ask me that everyday and I'm starting to wonder if this is all a game to try and get in my pants. He always tells me that he cares and loves me but just from past experience with other guys I don't know if I should believe him. I don't think he only wants sex how can I be sure?
I don't think that all he wants is sex, but it is certainly on his mind.
He shouldn't be asking you every day about it because that just makes you nervous and unsure. Tell him he can ask you about once every two weeks or a month.
If you ever become truly ready for him, let him know right away. If you have the feeling that you will never be ready give him that message too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com