Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi. I have been with my gf for almost 4 years. Lately I have been feeling like I want out. I love my gf very much but I dont feel I am in love anymore. I feel very lustful towards other women and am constantly thinking about it. I know my gf is in love with me and I know she would feel completly destroyed if I broke up with her. I dont know how to tell her. Im very afraid that if I do break up with her I will regret it and then it will be too late because she wont love me anymore. What can i do? Please help!
Do her a favor and tell her exactly what you wrote here.
Your feelings are completely understandable. However, of course she won't like what you tell her. So be sure to let her know that you love her as a friend and that you want to continue seeing her.
This will be in her best interest because it is better for you to break up with her now rather than later when you may have married and have children. It seems like you have some wild oats you want to sow, if so... now's the time to do it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com