Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Okay, so, this girl i met a few years ago had a thing for me right off the bat, and i really didnt feel that way about her at that time, so we continued to be good friends, she would always flirt with me, and i would just kind of casually take it, and let it slide, but after spending a full summer with her, im starting to fall for her, and not just kind of, its really strong, and she told me a few weeks ago that she didnt really have a thing for me anymore, and that crushed me. So she moved farther away, so i cant really see her every day anymore, but we still talk on the internet and occasionally meet up to do something fun, and every single time i fall harder for her, and she just continues to act on her "i dont like you anymore" thing, but she post things on her myspace page saying that i am the best thing that ever happened to her, i make her smile like she never has before, and she would be lost without me kind of stuff on her page, so i always think theres still a little hope left. So, now im completely lost, she is soooo confusing, and im just not sure if im wasting my time or not...
Ask her straight out if you are wasting your time. And, ask her why she is saying all those nice things on her page but seems not to like you otherwise.
A good relationship takes a lot of communication so be prepared to share your ideas, your feelings, and your affection with her.
It shouldn't take too long to figure out what she really wants.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com