Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I donít know were to start? About a year ago I find out that my wife was cheating on me after 15 yr. It was a bed time for me though I would never live form there on then I meant someone else it being a yr now and I care for her but I just donít want to get hurt again sometime I think she is cheating on but other time I donít there's been some sign that indicate that she is. But I donít want to over react, but I donít want to get hurt. Here are some sign. When her cell phone want off she was in the other room so I like to see who was calling it was someone sending her a text I canít say what it was yes it was that bad. She I ask her about it she told me it was an old friend and that just the way he talk to all has friend so she give the cell phone up then a fellow month I want online and she forgot loge out I was looking up something IM pop-up it was some guy who says it been a long time were have you been so I type back ( OK I KNOW THIS WAS WORNG OF ME) I told him I have been busy with work and boyfriend he reply so I WAS DO YOU WHEN YOU WRERE WITH HIM I confronted her on this see then told me that it was just someone see would cheat with before see meant me and see never meant him. She told me she had a bad past so see got a new e-mail acct. I donít know is it just me Iím I reading too much into it, is it just that her past will pop up time to time, or is see cheat on me
I can't give you much advice except that you and your wife should see a marriage counselor as fast as possible. Don't wait, this problem has been
around too long and needs to be fixed.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com