Does he likes me or not
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok, i wrote with this before about my long time friend who told me that he loves me. i never felt that he cares for me, he never finds time to talked with me. I asked him before if he's just fooling around but he always denied that and said that he treated me the same way as what we are before as friends and that he wanted to be that way. I tried not to talked to him for almost week hoping that he'll miss me and give a shout but he never did. Now im almost convince that he doesnt like me and that he's just pressured somehow with the situation bec he doesnt have gf yet. I was thinking how could this relationship will work out if our communication is only MSN or YM, since we lived miles away, he said that its too expensive t make a call and that we can use VOIP but he never make the effort to do it.I tried to login today and he was there, im waiting for him to greet me or something but he never did. Im quite disappointed and really dont know wat to do now. I can say that i always do the bending. I'm always the first one who initiates everything. What should i do now? Should i still believe and hold with this so called "relationship" or should i just let him go? Coz i really dont feel special or anything to him.
Sorry you are in this situation.
You have already spent enough time, energy and emotion on this guy. Take a deep breath and call it quits with him. If he tries to get you back, tell him things will have to change before you give him another chance.
There are plenty of other boys out there waiting for someone nice like you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com