Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
When I was in my early teens, just beginning to notice guys, I swore to myself I'd NEVER EVER cheat. NEVER. I knew, and still know, it's the worst thing you can do in a relationship.
I have cheated. On the last 3 boyfriends I've had. It's been with the same guy, and I usually break up with my boyfriend for him at some point. But we never last, because of arguements and fighting.
I've been dating a guy for 8 months now, I'm so in love with him it's unbelievable. And just when I thought I was so over my affair, I cheated again. With the same guy, again.
Now I'm stuck. I have more fun with my friend than I do with my boyfriend. I feel like I'm in love with both of them though, is that possible?
I know I can't keep going on like this. My boyfriend has to know the truth, and I can't keep leading my friend on.
I just don't know how to choose between them, how to let someone down, and how to NOT be considered a total SLUTFACE.
You belong with your friend.
Break up with your boyfriend and tell him you can't forget your feelings for your ex.
Then work very, very hard on developing a smooth relationship with your ex when he becomes your boyfriend again. It is no fun and will only cause trouble if you two keep arguing.
Good luck! George
p.s. don't give yourself names, you are just trying to make it through life like the rest of us. It often isn't easy.
-- from George
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