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I said yes 2 my best friend and now we r going out. i have been going out with him 4 about 1 week. I have told my parents but they arent happy. my bf did sumthing reli stupid with his ex but this was over a year ago. evry1 has forgotten about it except 4 my parents. they have sed he cant cum round the house and i cant go 2 his. i am not going 2 break up with him coz i reli lyk him. what shall i do about my parents?????? Advice
Don't talk very much about him in front of you parents.

If they bring the subject up, be ready to tell them something good that he has done in school (like good grades or athletics or drama, whatever). If that doesn't work let them know that you don't see much of each other since you can't go to each other's house. That's what they want to hear... that he is a good guy and that you aren't seeing too much of each other.

Of course, they are wondering about your sexual activity (kissing on up). If you are close to your mom, let her know how far you have gone... unless you have gone very far along.

Hope this helps! George

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