I've got a strong infatuation with a jerk, and now it's affecting my daily life, how to deal?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
As it says in my question, I have a crush on a "bad boy". A terrible situation. Whenever I see him, my day just lights up, and I feel completed for the remainder of it. But, recently I haven't seen him for about 2-3 days and I'm feeling so dull and lifeless. I can hardly concentrate on anything normally. I don't feel compelled to do anything. And I don't want to make a move and tell him my feelings because...well...he's a bad boy! I've tried to get my mind off of him, but I find this to be impossible. We've got the majority of our classes together, and we see eachother in the most unlikely places. It's ridiculous. Sadly, he also likes to make lots of eye contact with me which just heightens my feelings a lot! I never knew this would affect my life so negatively and it's hurting a lot. So how can I get over him?
A good way to get over someone is to find someone new.
Ask your girlfriends for suggestions and get their support about your feelings. It is easier to deal with troubles when you have helpful friends.
It's only been 2 or 3 days that you have had this trouble. Give it a little more time and things will begin to get back to normal.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com