PLEASE HELP ASAP!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile we do have a long distance relationship which does make things hard as we are so in love ... the thing is we do fight a fair bit usually it turns out ok but this time im not sure what im going to do im so scared of losing the love of my life and future husband ... we use the phone and text each other from the moment we wake till the time we go to sleep ... we were texting earlier and i had asked him if he would like to try talking a fair bit more um intimately over the phone, he had tried once about 4 weeks ago but i got very shy as i wasnt comfortable with it but now he says he is upset because he doesnt understand or believe how i can be comfortable with it now but not then ... i tried telling him i was sorry that i made him upset and didnt do it intentionally that i love him and just want to have everything with him he keeps saying he doesnt know how im going to fix this one i told him i am trying so hard but i cant fix a 2 person fight on my own he believes that this is not a fight and that its all up to me to fix this ... which i will gladly id give the world to have everything ok again i dont want to do anything to make it any worse ... the thing is he has depression and does get upset easily ... im sorry this is so long ... i dont know what to do ... i need help, i dont want to lose the love of my life ... this may sound silly to alot of people but most fights are ... please i need help asap im so scared ill lose him (im so sorry this is so long this has just happened im still so upset :( ...)
The next time you talk with him, start talking intimately with him. He will then understand that you really mean what you are saying.
Then the fight will be over.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com