should i?

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there this girl tht i like, but i tlk 2 her thru IM and onli met her in person once, but from wat we tlk bout and stuff, she has the same likes and enjoy same thngs as me, andi find her as an awesome person, and i grew in2 likin her 4 tht 4 bout 3 mnths now, probl is evrytime we try 2 hang out, either 1 of us cant make it, or 1 of us had cancel it, i been meanin 2 tell her i lik her in person but since we havin trouble in tht, i was thinkin of tellin her thru IM and if shes ok w/ it ask her outwhen we do hang out. i wanna tell her in person but since we havin trouble, mayb its ok 2 tell via IM? im llokin realli 2 jus tell her and get close 2 her, should i do thru IM or wait til we do hang, tho i dont wanna wait long? help plz and thnk u Advice
IM her and say that you really want to hang out with her and then make plans and don't cancel. That shouldn't be hard to do-- and, if you keep cancelling, then maybe you aren't meant to be.

On the other hand, if you IM her and say you like her then maybe you will find a way to hang out because of that extra emotion.

My advice is to wait and tell her in person.

Good luck, George

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