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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Okay well I've been with my boyfriend for going on 14 months now. And I guess you can say our relationship is "Forbidden" We arn't allowed to see eachother. I live with my grandparents and they absolutly hate him. They don't want me having anything to do with him. We've been having to sneak around and see eachother for months now and every so often my grandparents catch us. They don't see what a big role he plays in my life and they don't see how important he is to me.. He means the world to me.. I turn 18 next october and that's exactly 538 days away from today. I want to get out so bad because I just want to be with him. Having to hide it hurts like hell. My grandparents told me the next time they catch me with him they'll get us both arrested.. They don't want me having any contact with him. The only contact I have with him right now is my cell phone. But I even have to hide that from my grandparents. I dont know what to do. I'm so afraid that he's gonna leave me because we can't see eachother for a while. I don't know what to do... It's going to hurt like hell not being able to see him.. But there really isn't that many ways I can sneak around anymore.. I dont know what to do.. Please help me... Please...
I'm sorry you are in this situation.
There is nothing you can do so long as your grandparents disapprove of him and threaten to call the police.
Try talking with your school counselor or school psychologist. They may know something about the particular area where you live and can help you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com