I made the mistake of dumping him...
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my ex, Jason, had only been going out for just less than a year, but it was just... right, perfect, amazing. I can't explain it. but then a month before we broke up, he started ignoring me not saying hello or anything similar to a kiss goodbye. This went on for a month, it was agonizing. I couldn't bare it anymore and after a week of deciding and crying I knew I had to stop it. I loved him I truly did, but it seemed like he wanted anything but to love me back. What's worse is that I dumped him and regretted it everyday since.
He wouldn't talk to me or even look at me for the two months after and we just started talking again and getting closer at the beginning of this school year. I could not just exclude him from my life, I still love him and want him back. We talk now and flirt a bit back and forth, we have friends in the same group so we see each other a lot. It is just getting to be to much to bare. I love him and I really think we have a chance of getting back together.
What can I do?
Tell "Jason" that you are sorry you broke up with him and that you want him back. If he asks, you can go back and discuss your break up but don't bring it up yourself because it would just bring up bad memories.
The way he has been acting with you may mean that he is interested too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com