Truth or lie?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hello, last time I wrote to you about "Twist in the story" saying how he commented on this girl's picture etc and you told me he is a flirt and I have got to flirt back etc. You can read my last post again. My friend ( a guy) asked him randomly on msn the other day that oh whats happening between him and me and he goes oh nothing and that he is with someone. So today we met at the train station since I was late and he was late as well and we saw each other randomly there and therefore we started talking etc and we had the same lesson as well in the morning. After college, I was walking back to the station and he was walking in front of me but a bit far, with his friend (a girl). He turned around and saw me and he waited and then he walked up to me with the girl. He asked me to wait for him and I was like huh? :S And when I did that I did this usual *huh whats happening kinda thing signal* with ma hand and he held my hand saying that hes going to leytonstone so just wait for him hes going to take the train with me and he carried on walking pass me removing his hand as he was walking pass me and his friends were standing behind me so he went to say bye to them. Afterwards, it was me, him and this girl walking together then the girl went to her lesson and my ex had a lesson as well with her but he bunked it to go to leytonstone. So now it was just me and him walking, we cracked some jokes, he was laughing and taking the piss out of me and I was doing the same thing to him and punching him etc. Then my other friends from another college came to surprise me at the station. I thought he was going to go by himself or with this other guy who he met and was talking to him outside the barrier thing at the station but he actually waited for me and my friends. So we all got on the train and my friends were talking to him etc and I was talking to him and my friends and we all started cracking jokes.It became a friendly atmosphere even though he didn't know them before but my friends knew that he was my ex. So when we reached leytonstone, he said bye to everyone and looked at me then winked and he had a flirty smile on his face and then he said bye. I was like bye you have a great date with your girl yh, then he goes I ain't got no girl, who told you this. I was like yea yea just have fun inih. He goes oi man I don't have a girl shut up. I was smiling when I said all that though. If he has a girl then I don't know why he is denying it to me:s And I don't know whether he really got a girl or not. What do you think of all this? I don't know how to get to the bottom of this whether hes got a girl or not. And if he does then why would he deny it to me? Why can't he just say it? Why deny it? Because its not like I took it in a wrong way when my friend told me that he chatted to him yesterday and he goes he is with someone. I was like okay fair enough and like its not like I am being rude to him or anything. I am being normal and even when I said to him to have a nice date with his girl I was smiling and he proper denied it and said that he ain't got a girl and he wondered who told me this etc.
Sounds like you got misinformation about him having a girlfriend.
You should clear this up with soon. You should also contact the person who told you he has a girlfriend and verify it.
He certainly does like you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com