One lie messed up my whole relationship
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I messed up my relationship by lying to my girl I am over in Iraq curently deployed I had not been able to get ahlod of her for two days so I was waiting up one night till early in the morning then started chating on a site i was bored she called me i talked to her she sounded like she had been drinkin she got off the phone i went to bed she then wrote me online and said you have been talking to other girls and i rebounded and said no i swear i havent out of fear of losing her but then the next morning i told her the truth then she dumped me because i lied to her once and i was only talking with the other girl to pass the time she still talks to me she told me not to call her or she will change her number she still emails me but she said that if something was ment to be yours and you let it go it will come back to you and she said she wishes she could but she just cant how can i win her back what can i do to make her trust me i only lied once and then i told her in the morning that i was lying
Sorry you are in this situation.
Wait until she has cooled off and tell her that you love only her and that you will never lie to her again.
Go to a flower site on the Internet and send her some nice flowers with a note that says "I love you" attached.
She will probably come to her senses so just don't antagonize her right now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com