Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
i used to date someone i worked with. Actually we only went out a few dates. Good times but when we finally talked about where this is going (dumb mistake on my part), she said she wasnt interested in anything like that. So we lost touch and i moved jobs. I emailed her from the new job and she told me to get on gmail so could chat sometime. So i did. I told myself that she wasnt interested, we are just friends..etc and i didnt really chat or inititate much convo. But the last two weeks, we have talked every day via the chat. We had one great convo on chat (if that's possible) and since then we have just clicked. Two complications: One is that i heard she had a boyfriend and one day i asked her and she got kicked offline and didnt return with an answer the next day. Two is that i'm not really interested in pursuiing her or asking again because i feel like if she wants she'll pursue me. Am i doing the right thing here? Is she playing games? Confused.
I agree with your final statement that you are not interested in pursuing her. There is no reason for you to chase someone who is probably playing games.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com