I'm to shy!Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There's this girl I like and I'm to shy to say anything to her,I attemp but chickenout at the last second.Do you kno anything I can do to get pass this?
You wrote two months ago saying the exact same thing. I will cut and paste my last answer to you. This time read it and build up your courage just like you would do pushups to build your upper body strenght.
Here is what I said last time:
She is just as shy as you are. So when you build up the courage to say something to her don't be surprised if she doesn't know how to reply.
So start off with the simplest possible thing... and it is very effective. Whenever you pass her in the hall, look her straight in the eye, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and smile, smile, smile. Smiling is the best thing you can do to catch someone's attention.
As far as courage goes... read the following story about a freshman volleyball girl who asks the senior motorcycle guy for a date. If she can be so brave, so can you. Here is where you can find the story:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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