Please help me..... Please.....Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've been with my boyfriend for 13 months and in the beginning of our relationship I screwed up royally... I cheated on him... Well we went through a bunch of stuff trying to get through it and everything and at first he broke up with me and then two days later he got back with me. We've been together ever since. Well now all of the sudden he's talking to one of the guys I was flirting with when I was cheating on him and this guy is feeding him a bunch of lies and my boyfriend broke up with me. He told me he hates me and he doesn't want anything to do with me. He told me to stay out of his life because i've done nothing but ruin it for him. He told me to just leave him alone forever and that he doesn't need me and he doesn't want me. It really upsets me because this guy is feeding him all these lies and he doesn't want to believe me. I don't know how to show him that i'm not lying. I don't talk to that guy anymore and I have no way of getting ahold of him. My boyfriend is really angry and I don't blame him. But he doesn't want to believe me. This guy told him I sent him 17 naughty pictures which is totally a lie. My boyfriend has our cell phone bill to prove it but he can't find it. I never sent that guy any naughty pictures. I sent him ONE picture of my face. I don't know what to do.. My boyfriend asked me if I could just leave him alone forever and stay out of his life.. It was so hard for me to say yeah because I don't want to. He wants me to give my cell phone to my friend and he's gonna pick it up.. (he bought the cell phone and pays the bill). He told me if I call him one time after he takes my phone he's gonna tell my gpts everything that i've done. (we arnt supposed to see eachother). I don't want to let him go.. I love him so much. More than my life... I don't want to lose him... Please... Help me... I don't know what to do....
The only way I can think of is to contact the liar and ask him to tell the truth to your ex. You could even write out a "confession" for him to sign. It would say something like "I [his name] do admit that I was not telling the truth about [your name]." Ask him to give it to your ex (since you are not allowed to contact him) and answer any questions your ex has. Or you could get one of your friends to talk to the liar and get him to admit it and then your friend could tell your ex.
Or you can take the risk of calling your ex and telling him to ask the liar to show you the naughty picture.
If you don't want to do this or if the liar refuses to sign, etc. then you are out of luck.
Good luck! George
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