What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Iím so confused. I started dating this guy a while ago and things were great. He told me that he was falling for me and I was falling for him but then a mutual friend of ours started telling him that I didn't like him and that I was cheating on him and then she told me that he was cheating on me. He and I tried to work through this but eventually we broke up. A few months later he and I got together and things were good once again. He told me again that he was falling for me and that he hadn't liked anyone as much as he did me. The mutual friend was out of the picture and things were good. But then another mutual friend came between us playing him and I against each other. We were good for a while and then I went to my exs to get some of my stuff. Well the mutual friend told the guy I was dating at the time that I went to my exs to get some stuff and it hurt his feelings and we eventually broke up. I still have feelings for him. I really do. I want to be with him but I don't know how he feels. I tried to call him right after we broke up but we didn't talk. I think it was too soon for us to talk. We did this the last time we broke up. We went about 2 or 3 months without talking or anything and then we got back together. I know that most on again, off again relationships don't work but I know some that do. I want to be with him I really do. I like him alot. I think I may even be in love with him. I just don't know what to do. I've been told that since I'm the one that iniated the breakup that he's waiting for me to call him. What do I do?
Call him and tell him you want to stop the break-up cycle.
If you get back together work to figure out why you break up and how to keep it from happening.
Obviously you two are drawn together so you should be enjoying it rather than being alone.
BTW, these "mutual friends" you mention are NOT friends at all. Get rid of them.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com