What the hell happened?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago and I am still confused. We were together for 2.5 years and living together for about a year. We would do everything together, we talked about marriage, kids, buying a house, travel, etc.
One day I confronted him because I felt we were losing our connection. He is going to school 3 nights a week and works full time, but whenever he was around me, all he would do is sleep. So when I confronted him he broke up with me.
When I went to gather the rest of my things, he was crying and saying that he loves me and I'm his best friend but he doesn't believe he should have happiness. He was married 5+ years ago but his poor wife passed away. I encouraged him to get help but he would always get mad.
I want him back but I don't know what to do!
Do you want him back on his terms? Will you put up with the way things are while he is in school? If so, explain to him you are ready to go back to the way things were. He will probably take you back.
If he won't get counseling maybe you should. It would help you learn to live with what you have and maybe improve things.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com