I want him back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my boyfriend (now ex) were together for a year and a half. We first hooked up at a party, then we turned into something, we were happy and always having a good time. we said I love you and things were great.
then at one point i just want to be single and hang out with my friends, play the fields. so we broke up, then he hooked up with one of my friends and i was so upset but we made up but not as boyfriend and girlfriend i jsut forgave him for hurting my feelings. then i hooked up with someone, i guess you can call it revenage. however me and my ex got back together but not as a title, i just wasnt all in it for the title. but everyone pretty much considered us a couple. until one night i hooked up with someone. he found out and it was bad, he cried and cried, then he broke up with me and of course then i realized how much i wanted him
we were broken up for awhile and i was really sad. then one day he came over just for fun, and well you know what happened. the next day he said he wanted to start over, so we did.
our relationship was fine, then i guess he thought i was really distant. so we broke up. but i told him ive been so distant because i was going throu some things, i was having panic attacks, and i miscarried. i only told him about the panic attacks.
we got back together but we kept fighting but we had alot of fun too. he always brought up how he couldnt trust me and all this stuff but then he was always trying to be supportive.
everytime we broke up i always did something extra special for him, realy cute things. and now he is saying i only do cute things when i want him back and in the relationship i go back to a bitch when in reality i am trying so hard to make things right. ive tld him about the miscariage and he cried when he heard but now hes acting like its noting
ive already went all physco which i wished i didnt but i havent spoken to him in 2days, so let me remind you we go to all the same parties so idk how to act because i just really want him back!
please help! sorry its so long i am long winded!
Do something extra special for him. It has worked in the past.
Then when you are together again work on being a sweeter person so he won't call you a bitch.
Your relationship has been up and down for a long time... no reason to think it is at an end now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com