Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, it's me...again. I'm the one who wrote "If he likes me, then...", "Making Progress and He's Catching On!", and "Flirting Back". Sorry I have so many questions!
Well, this time I have a problem with other guys flirting with me. My crush is not the only one who flirts with me. Mostly every guy I know (and some that I don't) is flirting with me. A lot of the time, they do it when my crush is around! I've noticed that whenever he's around and he hears them, he goes away as if I'm already taken and there's no use in trying. I always look at him and give him a "Help-Me-Face" when this happens, but I think he misunderstands it.
He seems fine when it's just us two, but when there's another guy, he usually either walks away, or talks the other guy into going somewhere else. Like this time we were in an assembly, I just looked at him a little bit, and BAM! Instant staring contest!
So, my question is: How do I give him the message "You're the only one for me" without speaking much, because we are in diferent classes and we are often seperated by other guys. Please help me tell him that there's no need to be jealous!
THANK YOU!!! You guys are awesome!
Give him a piece of paper and say "Why don't you contact me sometime."
On the paper, write that you really like him and that he should ignore the other guys that are flirting with you. Also write down a way for him to contact you--either by computer or cell.
This will give him the message and also make him look better in the other guy's eyes.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com