She is like rejecting me.

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I got a classmate of mine in our college and so we become known to each other. I never thought that i will fall inlove with her.. As weeks pass by, i just realize that I am falling with her. Every time she speaks i just realize how much i need her in my life.. Until the time came that i did things, though hard for me still was done just for her.. I was a pretty showy kind of guy.. I always tell her what I feel.. But then she told me that she was afraid that I lose control of my emotion.. and so was i.. I was not able to control what i feel.. now she it seems like shes turning away from me.. but still, when i send messages to her cell phone, she would still reply.. when i great her in the morning she would do the same and sometimes asks me about how my work was.. but its pretty diffrent becoz the way she reply to my text messages had change.. its like a tasteless now.. i dont know why.. sometimes i think that shes just doing that because she doesn't want to show much emotion but alwyas i thought of the she just going away from me.. please help me.. Advice
Could it be that your personalities don't match very well?

If that is true then you would be better off finding someone new. You seem to have a nice, lively personality and many women find that attractive.

As far as this woman goes, do you want to change yourself that much just to attract her? Could you even do it? I think the answer to both of those questions in "no."

If you want to pursue things with her, have a long, gentle conversation with her and try to figure out what her concerns are.

Good luck! George

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