Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I asked a question when my ex and i first split, i took the advice and have been a friend always there when she needs something or when either of us are bored and just want to hang, my question is this over the last 3 weeks we have been together every day and it is her asking me over or making plans for us to go out and do stuff however during this period every now and then she says we spend to much time together and we should stop, i say ok and that we are doing things at her pace however the very next day ill get an email at work or a text with her asking if i want to do something that afternoon. She has been going to parties with her friends getting me to pick her up and take her home and when we get back she tells me that she would rather sleep next to me in her bed than be at a party, i dont know if now is the time for me to tell her i still love her or if i should keep going the way im going and see what happens. I'm very confused at the moment yesterday we lay together in bed and chatted, fell asleep and then this afternoon she tells me we spend to much time together, its like she starts to let her feelings for me out realises then shuts them away again, what should i do stay the same or tell her how i feel????
Tell her how you feel but be subtle about it.
Say "I'm starting to have feelings for you." If that isn't enough then say you have "strong feelings."
It sounds like she may be testing you when she says you might be spending too much time together.
Make sure she understands your feelings but don't come on too strong.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com