How do I get him back and is it even worth it?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
To start off i'll let you know that i am 15 almost 16 years old and my ex is 17. Yes you may think we are to young for love but i love him more then anything. we have been together for a little over a year and a half. me n him have went through so much together, alot more then an average teenage relationship would and have become very close. But we have had our problems. Its pretty much a pattern that every 3-4 months he will want a break and then hav a little fling with another girl. nothing to drastic just kissing and little stuff. about a month and a half ago i found out he was talking to another girl on myspace but he didnt know i knew. I was really overwelmed with everythign so i asked him for a break to get myself back together. As things went on they got worse. A couple days later i found this girl at his house. I was heartbroken and didnt know what to do. We ended up getting back together and things were going really well. I didnt know if i could trust him yet so i kept checking his myspace. She would message him but he would ignore them. 3 weeks ago i saw that he messaged her first and he started acting distant. i found out that they were hanging out together and kissing supposidly while we were still going out but i didnt want to believe it. We broke up and now i miss him so much. he says he needed time to himself but hes hanging out with her alot now and ignoring my calls. I love him with all my heart and i just wanna know how to get him back.
From what you've said, you shouldn't have much trouble getting him back. The problem is holding on to him. This idea of a break every 3-4 months is just crazy and you can't let him get away from it.
If this is the way he is going to be, then you are right in asking whether he is worth getting back again. My advice is he isn't worth it.
-- from George
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