Why doesn't He Want Me Anymore, He Used to adore me!!Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I was with my Ex for 3 years and we ended suddenly and very cold. I am still not over him, but he could care less.I try to forget about him but I find myself having to make myself not think about him. I keep asking myself how could he just give up, turn his back on me and make it look so painless. I died inside when he told me he didnt love me anymore, I guess I shoulda saw it comming but I figured that I could change him. The more I tried to make him love me the more I made him hate me and I became his enemy , just another problem in his life. It killed me and I still feel dead because I figured he'd be back by now, we were so close so inseperable eben tried to have a baby. I sleep with guys in order to not be alone and in order to feel euphoric because whan I do I dont thinh of but when they're gone...and they always leave, He's back on my mind. I cant Love Me Unless Someone else does and I dont know what to do about it.
The first step to digging yourself out of this hole is to realize that you can Love You without someone else. First you have to love yourself and everything else will fall into place.
Be active with friends (and not just someone to sleep with), take care of yourself--your body and your mind. Go places, see things, plays, concerts, movies, museums. Be active, skate, ski, run, walk, bowl. Your body will feel better and you will feel better. And you will like yourself better because you are doing positive things.
Best of all, by building up yourself you will become more attractive to your ex. Friends will tell him about the new you. He may be drawn back to you.
Your whole future is in your hands--take advantage of it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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