She told me she doesn't love me but I still want her back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I would like to ask you to help me get my ex girlfriend back...
Ok, here is the situation...
She left me a month and a half ago because many people (including my best friend) interfered in our relationship. She told me that
she doesn't like me anymore and that we are totally different persons. We haven't spoke or contacted for more than a month and I really
don't know what to do because I love her too much and I am thinking about her every single moment of every single day.
She is a "Facebook" buddy with my roomies and she told my roomie over the Internet a few days ago that she is very happy, that
she doesn't love me anymore and that she has changed her phone number so I can't contact her. But this is not all...
She also claims on this Internet society similar to Myspace so called "Facebook" that she is engaged with her ex boyfriend and I
don't know if she is lying or not. But I am hundred percent sure that they are seeing each other every day and maybe they are in
a relationship again. I also forgot to mention that my best friend is not my best friend anymore because he is her good friend and
as I can see doesn't want to lose her so he crossed me with no reason. And this so called my best friend also told her a lot of lies
about me and she is very angry at me. In some situations before I made my mistakes but she thinks I am an idiot and a loser
because a lot of people told her so. I mean, I really love her and I would like to have her back but I really don't know which should be my
first move... Should I call her? Should I just come on her door unexpected and beg her for a talk? I am really desperate because
I think she is the love of my life and lost her because others interfered in our relationship (especially my best friend).
Please tell me the moves I should do to have her back because I believe you are an expert!!!
Thank you in advance!
Unfortunately, I am not a magic maker.
You split up 1 1/2 months ago, she said she doesn't like you anymore, she is seeing her ex every day and claims she is engaged with him, and she changed her phone number so you couldn't call her.
This paints a very grim picture.
If you are desperate to give it one more try, send her some flowers, some dark chocolates, and then ask her out for dinner. This is just a suggestion for you to think about... I really don't think it would work.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com