what should I tell him or what should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
K so there's this guy I met in college about a month ago. We have been talking for about a month now. At first it started off really good he would call me every night and txt me a lot throughout the day...slowly but surely the calls and txts started 2 decrease...but anyways in the beginning he would try to tell me how he was so different from other guys and how he wanted us 2 get 2 know each other more...so slowly but surely I fell 4 him..and now that I've sort of fallen for him he's saying he can't b in a relationship because of the things that r going on in his life. He won't explain 2 me what things but I think its because of his ex..I've asked him if that's what its was but he says no..I've backed away from him once and he started calling and txting a lot saying y am I doing that 2 him so I started 2 come around him more..now he's acting the same way...so now im gonna back off once again and he wants 2 know "y im dissin him" what should I tell him and what should I do about this situation?
Tell him that things are not going to be ok between you two until he tells you straight out what is bothering him and why he can't be in a relationship with you.
Explain to him directly what you said to me about how your relationship has grown then diminished and back and forth. He is dissin you, not the other way around.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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