3 guys and I don't know what to do...Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok so I have a boyfriend. Been with him for almost 2 months. He is so sweet to me, he is great & i love him, but here is the thing. Im still in love with my ex and with this other guy that i got my first kiss from. my boyfriend thinks im cheating on him with my ex, but im not. plus my ex sits there and says he loves me and then changes his mind again. What can i do so that i can still be with my boyfriend but still be able to talk to my ex with out bringing up and thinking of getting back together, when i know he will hurt me?
OK, I found your question and my answer (below).
I don't know how else it can be answered. You said point blank you are in love with three guys. I replied that you can't be in love with three guys because that's not how love works. I apologize for not answering the rest of your question. My bad. I don't see how you can talk to your ex if he is going to keep making you feel bad. Maybe you should just tell him that you will only talk to him if he stops making you feel bad.
Good luck! George
It is difficult to be in love with three persons at the same time.
My guess is that you are not fully in love with any of them. When you are in love, the normal thing is to be thinking of the other person all of the time. How can you think of three people all of the time at the same time?
My advice is to stop thinking of your first kiss and your ex and concentrate on your BF. If that doesn't work out, you can try something else.
Good luck! George
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