Girl has long distance boyfriend??What can i do.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ive been talking alot to a girl who has a boyfriend for about two weeks. We attend the same university and the bf is a long ways away.. They know eachother from highschool and still live in the same area during breaks and stuff. Weve hung out a bunch and im confident im picking up good signs.. But im stuck I know that i have a pretty big crush on her and i think about her alot. I guess i can say id like to make her my girlfriend but ive been good about taking it slow. Im pretty sure she knows how im feeling even tho I havent done anything directly to give it off. Her friend even asked me if I liked her and i just kinda shrugged it off. What can I do to take another step in our relationship? When should I tell her my feelings and where?
Tell her you are "developing feelings" for her.
She will then let you know where you stand. It is unfortunate that she has a boyfriend because you really shouldn't be trying to break up a relationship.
If you agree with that thought, you should not push it with her beyond letting her know that you care for her. Then it will be in her hands what happens.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com