I dont think she knows wat she wants?!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
well, i was goin out with this girl since november 2007 and its not feb 2008.. I really like this girl.. I cant stop thinkin about her in everything i do. I have never meet anyone like her before.. I think im in love myself but all my friends reckon that its just lust.. But i no the difference between love and lust at this stage.
Anyway, we started arguein over the most stupid thing ever and we ended up breakin up but i am really regreating it now.. my friends reckon it was the rite thing to do but i dont think so.. mabye it was but i dont think so.. Well i said to her mabye we could give it another go and see how we get on and she just said she needed time to think about it.. So it has been 2 weeks now since the break up happend and im fed up waitin about to see what happens.. We still chat to eachother a good bit and i hate it when we r not talkin to eachother, I think shes class and my mates reckon she wants me back as well. Do u think i should say it to her again now soon about me and her gettin back together and if yes, what do u think i should say?? I think i will be devestated if she says no but i have to ask because mabye she will say yes.. however, i also suspect that she is seeing another fella at present and while she was seeing me.. she said they r just friends but she is always on bout him and they spend a good bit of time with eachother when he is home at the weekends from college.. What do you think i should do??
Since you love her it would be good for you to ask her again.
But instead of just asking her, tell her you love her and show her by giving her flowers and dark chocolates. Hopefully she will realize that she loves you too and give it another try.
Stay out of stupid arguments. Many relationships end that way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com