Wondering if it's right for me to want to still be closer to him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm facing a bit of a dilema here. i had been seening this awesome guy that totally rocked my world. While we were togeher we were the perfect soul mates (i belive) but due to long distance relationship we had to call it quits after 2 years of constant emails, photos, and instant messenger.
Here is where i dont know what to do...
We recently came into contact agian through a phone conversation and i couldn't have been happier, and from what he told me neither could he...
we talked for 3 hours and during those 3 hours he said that he missed me and that he thinks about me constantly...however, he also said that he has been seeing a girl and also mentioned how happy he currently is with his relationship. At the end of the conversation he told me he missed me...and i told him i missed him as well..
since then i cant stop thinking about him and i want to continue talking but i dont want to be intrusive in his relationship...any suggestions? Thanks so much for all your help!
Be honest with him and tell him you don't want to be intrusive.
You two are old enough that you should be able to figure out a way to live together... unless you are in different universities. And, that should come to an end soon.
Keep talking with him, it obviously makes you both happy and who knows where it will lead.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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