should i go or not go???

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my ex just recently break up like 2 weeks ago.. he said that we are not working out due to a small missunderstanding. anyway to make a story short...out of a blue one day, he told me that he is sick and that it's bad!!! this wedn he having a surgery on the sickness.... and i feel like i want to be there...

1. making sure that he ok
2. Cuz no one know that he doing the surgery
3. i dun want him to do this by him self...

even though i have a little feeling toward him. but the thing is that if i go

1. fiancial in crisis
2. don't know where to stay
3. dun have a car if i be there ( he away like 16 hour)
4. My family dun want me to go
5. He don't want me to be there
6. lose my jobs!!

what should i do? i am so confuse!! I Feel like this is what i need to do!!! Advice
While it is very kind of you to think of him, you have to think of yourself first.

First off you are split up. Then there are the six very good reasons you gave for not going to him.

This is a time to listen to your head and not your heart. You will still get to see him after it's all over.

Good luck! George

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