is she or isnt she
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
were both 15 and we have been going out for 6 months now we have been having sex with each other b4 we evan started going out
i love her n she says she loves me to but the 2 woman that she lives with use sex toys( dildos n vibrators) its her mum and a friend n i cant help but feel that my gf has started using 1 aswell
it all started when me n her were just hannging about talking n she 'joked' about having a didlo n naming it willy n i kept asking her are you serious n she kept promting 'YES!' evarytime i asked so the next day i explained to her how upset i was about it and she said she was only joking!!?
she said she been talking to her mum n m8 about those dildo things n they have been saying they are better than men, and for her xmas prez they were all telling me their going to get eachother didlos for xmas!!! but i found no evidence of my gf having 1 and still havent, for xmas she suposedly got a pregnancy test along with some condoms i know she had the test thing bcoz she showed me it
the other day when i slept over hers she was upsters for a while (about 30min) so i went upsets to see what she was doing n she must have heard me or somin becoze i heard her rushing in her room all of a sudden n zipped up something, then l8r on that n8 i cant remember how but she ended up saying something about her having a vibrator(saying it sarcasticly though)
finally coming up to yesterday i said i know what youv been doing, youv been cheating on me with a vibrator!!! (saying all that in a messing around kind of sense) n she looked at me for a split seck as if to say how did you know but then shouted something at me in defence n i simply said iv been hearing things, she said well their obviously lies, so i said your mum told me, n she said stop foolin around about me have a bloody sex toy i havent got 1 when are you going to get that sunk into your head!!!
are the odds against her how can i find out if she has 1ns and for all to stop this pesturising me for it will eventually affect the relationship, i know its bad what im like but i believe i have evary right to feel this way from whats been going on as stated above, please help me thank you
There is no way you can find out unless you search her room and find it. Or if she admits to it.
Stop worrying about it. Either she has none in which case no problem, or on the other hand she DOES have one and who cares? Loosen up!
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com