Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
The quality of love and the duration of a relationship are in direct proportion to the depth of the commitment by both people to making the relationship successful. -- Brian Tracy

We talked about getting married

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Hi My gf broke up with me about 2 mths ago during Xmas,after 4.5 yrs,everthing was good except from time to time.Talked about getting married.she told all her friends that I was the one. having kids like we were already married.Had gotten over age difference. our families were like one. She started a new job and had some mental issues and stays real moody just about deserted her family and friends.She said she was tired of waiting on a commitment and/or needed some space. but I think she wanted to explore she's 26 and I am 36.She said something just snapped after her last breakdown. Stayed with her through this one and 2 or 3 previous. I've tried the no contact method for a while she did contact me and now we talk once in a while. so I still have connection with her family.all good. When we talk. I talk confident and we just find out what been going on.
I care for her more now than I ever have and she knows this. She told me she has this feeling in her gut that want go away as I do 24/7. It feels like we are in the same boat.
I feel like I need to go tell her how I feel and tell her why I think the relationship in my opinion went bad. I want her back so bad but I might need to give her her space.
Do you have any suggestions. Thanks

RomanceClass.com Advice
She said she wants a commitment or some space.

If you are ready, why not offer the commitment first and see how she reacts. If she accepts then hopefully things will be fine. Otherwise she can have the space.

She has been with you since she was 21 and that is the age when a lot of people (especially women) feel the need to spread their wings and try out the world. If she never got this chance, that may be the reason she needs space now.

Sounds like you have a good thing going. Try one approach or the other and see what develops.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - I Want my Ex Back

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com

Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


Follow Me on Pinterest

Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!

RomanceClass on Facebook

Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues

| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

origami wedding favors