My ex is cheating on his current gf with me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
IM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX-BOYFRIEND. WE HAVE 3 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN TOGETHER, BUT HE HAS ANOTHER PERSON IN HIS LIFE RIGHT NOW. BUT HE CANT BE TOO HAPPY WITH HER IF HE HAS SLEPT WITH ME SEVERAL TIMES.
I WOULD LIKE SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO GO ABOUT TRYING TO GET HIM BACK AND HAVE HIM THINK ABOUT ME ALL THE TIME AND START REALLY MISSING ME AND DECIDE THAT IM THE ONE HE REALLY WANTS AND NOT HER! PLEASE HELP!
I hate to say this, but your ex left you, and is now cheating on the person he's with. If he comes back to you, it's very likely he'll cheat on you and then leave you again. It is the way he works in a relationship - he has stress, he just finds another woman to make the stress go away.
I would really find someone that can be a good role model for your kids. They are going to grow up and base their entire thoughts on life and love on how you and your partner act. You want them to grow up with happy, healthy childhoods and views on love - not watching their mom cry because daddy is cheating again, or cry because daddy left again. You and the kids deserve far better than that. Find a guy that will be there for them, that will love you and love them and show them what it really means to be a good father.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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