Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok i have been wanting to hold my girlfreinds hand but it is my first girlfriend and people tell me to just take her hand but i haven't got the guts. Please i really need help i am going crazy.
This is your luckiest time. A first girl friend and you get to take the lead.
Try this: say to her "Hey, look our hands fit together" and hold out your hand. If she holds out the matching hand then just hold on and hold her close. If she holds out the non-matching hand then laugh and put your other hand in hers to match.
Then say "Your hand is nice and warm!" That will make her feel good.
Now I hope you have already taken my advice about hugging her and kissing her on the cheek. If you don't have the guts to do this stuff just read the following true story about a freshman girl and the guy on the motorcycle:
Don't you have as much guts as she did? If you don't start exercising your gut muscles now, where are you going to be next year? Think about it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com