Holding hands?!?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok i have been wanting to hold my girlfreinds hand but it is my first girlfriend and people tell me to just take her hand but i haven't got the guts. Please i really need help i am going crazy.

RomanceClass.com Advice
This is your luckiest time. A first girl friend and you get to take the lead.

Try this: say to her "Hey, look our hands fit together" and hold out your hand. If she holds out the matching hand then just hold on and hold her close. If she holds out the non-matching hand then laugh and put your other hand in hers to match.

Then say "Your hand is nice and warm!" That will make her feel good.

Now I hope you have already taken my advice about hugging her and kissing her on the cheek. If you don't have the guts to do this stuff just read the following true story about a freshman girl and the guy on the motorcycle:


Don't you have as much guts as she did? If you don't start exercising your gut muscles now, where are you going to be next year? Think about it.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - General Dating

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.