what should i do ??
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
THEIRS THIS GUY I MET LAST YEAR AT FIRST HE WAS LIKE WHATEVER THEN LAST YEAR HE NOTICED WE WENT TO THE SAME SCHOOL AND HE ALWAYS SAID HI TO ME. THIS YEAR WE HAVE A CLASS TOGETHER AND HE IS ALWAYS SMILING AT ME TRYING TO GET MY ATTENTION. AND WHEN HES WITH A GIRL HE IS ALWAYS TRYING TO MAKE ME JELOUSE AND I DO THE SAME THING TO HIM. I GO TO HIS SOCCER GAMES AND HE ALWAYS TRIPS WHEN HE LOKS AT ME . AND HE IS A MOODY PERSON SOME DAYS HE TALKS TO ME AND OTHER DAYS HE IGNORES ME I GET SO MAD.. IM NOT THE TYPE OF GIRLS THAT KNOW HOW TO FLIRT WHEN I TRY TO I LAUGH I DONT KNOW HOW TO.. HOW DO I SHOW HIM IM INTRESTED WITHOUGHT BEING TO DESPRATE LOOKING ?? AND I JUST FOUND OUT HE MIGHT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND BUT HES STILL THE SAME TO ME WHAT SHOULD I DO ?? SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM?? I TRIED BUT HES JUST SUPER FINE HIS SMILE AND HIS PERSONALITY I LOVE IT BUT IM 15 AND HES 18 ?? DOES THAT MATTER??<3OH AND ANOTHER THING HE IS ONE OF MY COUSINS BEST FRIEND AND ILL FEEL WIERD IF I WOULD EVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM..AND I CANT TALK TO HIM I FREEZE HOW DO I OVER COME THIS?
You are worrying too much. He seems interested in you, so let him make the moves.
Whenever he says hi to you give him a big smile, look him in the eye, and say in a clear voice "Hi" plus his name. Always smile at him and that is a way of flirting.
The reason you should let him take the lead is because he might have a girlfriend, that he is one of your cousin's best friends, and because you freeze when you talk to him. That is a lot of hills to climb. It will be better to let him know that you like him by smiling etc.
If you get braver, write back and I'll give you more advice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com