Still Hurting after 2 Weeks
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am a 36 year old female and he is 48. We had been going out for a short time but we got along great and had fun. His ex-fiance which I didn't know anything about until recently came back in town. She had lived in another state because she followed her job.
He was torn between us but decided to try to work things out with her. I have been so hurt every since. Please make light of this situation for me so I can move on. I told him it was his loss and he wouldn't be able to forget me easily. I'm still hurting and its been 2 weeks.
Breakups take a long while to recover from - don't beat up on yourself if you're still hurting after only 2 weeks!! Take time for yourself, do things you love, watch movies you love. Go out with friends and enjoy life. It sounds like he was still on the rebound when he met you which is always bad. So his being on the rebound and not telling you was the main fault here, and now you've learned to ask about that in the beginning stages of dating, to make sure you don't go through that again.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com