How do i break up with him?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hello, i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 7 months, but we fight alot and he gets very aggresive and i get very aggresive as well, we are not getting along but we always seem to get back together as if nothing happened, what should i do?

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RomanceClass.com Advice
You need to work on your arguing skills or break up.

Being aggressive is counter-productive because it escalates the fight and interferes with communication. Good arguing skills helps clarify problems and find compromises when possible. Start by using the phrase "I feel..." and avoid using the word "you." Using "you" sounds like blaming the other person.

For specific advice on how to break up please see:
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/breakup.asp

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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