I messed up bad... but would he take me back?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hey, ages ago i started dating a bloke I had known for years... Id always fancied him and we were good friends.... My boyfriend of the time had been really creul and stole alot of money then just dissapeared.
After that I cried on this blokes shoulder ad we started dating....
I thought everything was going great but then he just dumped me one day... saying his head was screwed uo and he needed to sort his life out. i was devestated... We both took alot of drugs and this was another factor that turned our relationship sour and added confusement....
I was so angry that a really good friend had let me down... I was quite nasty to his face and just hard to deal with... however he would pick me up and let me down whenever he pleased. After a while I sorta realised how wrong the situation had become.... I wrote him a letter to tell him i was sorry and that I think we should keep out of each others way.
After 3 months of just ignoring eachother (even sat on the same sofa and not spoken a word) We kinda started chatting again... Ive sorted myself out and im no longer taking drugs and hanging around with the wrong people... and he has sorted a few issues out that he had.. I kinda want to start hanging out as friends again,... but last time I saw him I got stuck at his house and we sat about for a while chatting.... the slept together... kinda done by the alcohol... I dunno what to do know, its going to be really akward... and I thought it was comming on again... i love him so much, and just need a second chance so I can finally know that it really is not ment to be!!!
dunno what i should say to him now =(
Contact him and tell him how you feel.
It may be awkward, but that will get to the point quicker.
There still seems to be a spark between you two so take advantage of it.
Let him know how you feel... that is the important thing.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com