to pushy or not enough?

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so theres this girl (brothers girlfriends sister). i met her a lil before xmas. and the day we met we went to a party together. and out of no where we're all hugged up, play fighting and what not! and i really like her, she beautifull, smart, down to earth and all that good stuff. but she had a bf!! so i promised her she would be happier w/ me. and it wasnt an empty promise. so we talked since then but nothing more. ive asked her out and all that but she said she didnt kno. and her sister told me that she wanted to get her parents to like me cuz they were very judgemental and i woulndt be the pick of the crop in a parents eyes(bad past). so i waited and waited but nothing. and then we started to get a bit distant. an a couple days ago i wrote her and asked if she was still interested in me or if we would ever be more then friends. but no reply. so now im stuck here with no idea where to go next.. please help Advice
If she still has a bf, then that's probably the problem.

Write her again and ask if she has a bf and if she does that you won't bother her anymore. But if she doesn't then you would like to hang out with her or take her out somewhere.

If she doesn't answer your second attempt then you will know she isn't interested.

Good luck! George

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