imm real lost. and need help!

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
okay. so i use to be "talking" to this kid. i messed up my chances with him cause i hooked up with other guys while we were "talking" and apparently im around guys to much.

i rlyrlyrly like him and wanna prove to him that i'll change. and ill stop being around guys as much as i am.
and last time we hung out he asked me to kiss him, but i felt like he was testing me in a way. so i said no

my question is. that if we were to hang out, say tomorrow, and he wants to kiss. do i go for it, or try and make him see that i dont just kiss anyone and that im trying to change?

btw i am 14 years old. Advice
You did the right thing when you didn't kiss him. I think you are right that he was testing you.

If you hang out and he wants to kiss you should tell him that you like him but don't want to rush into things like you did when you were younger. Now that you are more mature you prefer to get to know a boy before kissing.

He should respect you for saying that.

Good luck! George

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