How do I tell him I don't like his kissing?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I currently have a fabulous boyfriend. He is always kissing me, not just on the lips, but just pecks on my neck, arms, hands, stomach, face, etc. But when we aren't just being silly and actually making out and more, his kissing is a little bit of a turn off. He does the thing where he'll only kiss one lip at a time, but that's pretty much ALL he does. And it gets pretty wet. It's annoying, too, because I really like deep passionate kisses, and he doesn't generally do that. I've tried to like, kiss him the way i want to be kissed, hoping he catches on, but then goes right back to sucking on my bottom lip. I like it on occasion, but not all the time! I want to tell him to kiss me the way I kiss him, but I dont know how to. Everything has been perfect so far and we've had no problems with each other...i just feel like it'd be embarassing for him and sort of awkward.
Tell him you want to play a kissing game.
The game is that first you kiss him and then he has to kiss you back the same way. Start off slow so he can get into the rhythm of it. Then it is his turn to kiss you and you do the same to him.
Hopefully the kisses will end up passionate and he will get a clue. If he flunks the first time try the game again until he catches on. Some boys are clueless and have to be led by the nose.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com