He is not accepting my sorry
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I love my long time friend and we both see each other since nov 2007. Recently he had to come over lot of family problems and personal issues and was going through a hell of trauma i was not able to see his pain and in context of not creating more pain to him i smsed him that lets break up and with no further discussions on it but then i am not able to control my feelings and wanted him back i asked sorry to him several times but now he's saying that he doesn't want me anymore but i love him madly and want him back pl advice
Until you learn to control your feelings, you will not get him back.
I don't mean to control all of your feelings, but the ones where you impact someone else's life. You obviously didn't think very hard when you broke up with him. You didn't think about how it would hurt him right when he was hurting very badly.
You need to convince him that you think things through when they are important. Just saying you're sorry doesn't prove that to him. Tell him all the details of how you made your mistake and that you have learned from it.
At your age, you should already know better about hurting people. Maybe he will take you back. If he does, treat him very nicely.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com