Afraid of Talking to Girls
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i m the boy really coward, even i can't talk
with girls for a general purpose, i all time afraid of them, i m good looking, and often girls
gaze at me...
but i couldn't do any thing
how i can remove my fears
i will be waiting
Remember when you were six and you happily played with boys and girls without even thinking about it? It's because they were all just 'friends' and you enjoyed being with them. The only thing that has changed is *your brain*. Now you don't think of girls as friends any more, and that's a bad thing. The first step in any relationship is always friendship, and it's REALLY important to have both boy and girl friends, no matter what else you do in life. If you only have friends of one sex you miss out on a gigantic wealth of experience.
So stop limiting your friend choice! That's like saying you'd only have friends with blond hair, or only have friends with green eyes. Be friends with boys AND girls. Talk to girls about school and classes. Say hello in the morning. Say goodbye in the evening. Just like any other friend. It's all about your view of things, and about practice. You have to remind yourself again that these "girls" are just friends too. Treat them as friends, and you'll be quite happy with the results.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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