Do i really have any reason for concern?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
naturally, i'm a jealous person. i've tried everything to stop it but now i feel like i'm being rational. My girlfriend works at a sports bar as a waitress and constantly flirts with other guys to make money. but then she talks constantly about it when she gets off. One of her regulers even texted her for days until she admited she knew from the start that he likes her. her two best friends are even ex's of year long relationships. i think she just likes the attention but i worry when she goes out to clubs and such. should i?

thanks for your time,
Mikol

RomanceClass.com Advice
It's only natural to be a little jealous from time to time.

The thing is not to become jealous to the point where you obsess about it or let it interfere with your relationship.

Let her know that sometimes you get jealous and it would be nice if she could help you out with that problem.

I think you are right that she enjoys the attention and you don't really have any reason for concern. Just make sure you are a very good boyfriend because she has lots of options.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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